Twenty – Seventh Sunday of Ordinary Time
Genesis 2:18-24
Hebrews 2:9-11
Mark 10:1-12
Many of you just responded, “Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ!” In saying those words, you are saying, “Lord, I believe in everything you say in the gospel.” I want to make sure you meant this because I think this is the hardest gospel ever written and certainly to preach on? The reason I say this is because when I read the word, “divorce” you may have checked out because you recalled the pain and suffering of going through a divorce. I included myself in this since I was married for eighteen years, divorced and given an annulment. Many of us who have gone through a divorce knows that it can leave you defeated, broken, and maybe even bring you to question yourself and your faith. So where is the Good News of Jesus Christ in these readings? There is actually a lot, but we need to truly understand and come to believe that God has a plan, and we do not always know that plan but is always better than our plan. I will share with you my homily, and hopefully it will match up with your homily, and in the end, we all will know the Good News of Jesus Christ.
The very first thing we should know about our Gospel is that it is a test. The Pharisees come to Jesus with a question, “Is it lawful for a husband to divorce his wife?” Everyone present knew that by rabbinic law it was lawful for a husband to divorce his wife. Marriage at the time of Jesus was an exchange of goods between two families as the woman was only a piece of property. Don’t shoot the messenger! I love what Jesus does; he sends them back to the beginning of creation to what God had intended marriage to be. Jesus says, “God created male and female, in his image.” Married couples are to remember that your spouse in created in the image and likeness of God. Jesus continues by saying, “It is for this reason that a man should leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” It takes a lot of work for two people to become one flesh. It takes a lot of forgiveness, a lot of understanding, and a lot of patience. Jesus doesn’t answer the question on divorce; he knows that divorce is painful to be avoided. What he does do is lift what God had intended for marriage and says, “Now be this!”
I love the way this gospel ends with Jesus telling the disciple to let the children come to him. I believe this is more than at the time of married couples are told, Be fruitful and multiply.” Jesus ends this gospel in this way as a reminder to all of us what we are to be, as children, innocent, pure and good.
The good news for married couples is for you to once again see your spouse in the image and likeness of God. The good news for those struggling in their marriage is to get the help you may need and commit yourselves to becoming one again. The good news for those who are divorced there is hope; the annulment process is designed to bring healing. If you need help in this, please contact Fr. Mike or I.
Our community is made of broken people, in need of God’s healing. It is in this place we come and are healed. When the promises we have made our broken we need to know that the promises of our God that he makes with us are never broken.